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The Advisor’s Playbook for Engaging Both Partners Before It’s Too Late
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The retention risk hiding in your existing book of business
Most advisors don’t intend to leave one partner out of the conversation. But it happens in nearly every practice — and the cost shows up years later, when it’s too late to fix it.
Research shows 70-80% of widows leave their advisor within a year of their spouse’s death. Not because of performance. Because no real relationship existed with the surviving spouse in the first place.
With $124 trillion changing hands over the next 25 years, and women set to inherit approximately 70% of it, the advisors who build relationships with both partners now will be the ones who retain clients through life’s most critical transitions.
This playbook shows you how.
What’s inside:
- A self-assessment to see your practice the way your clients do
- A meeting framework that engages both partners from minute one
- A values-first approach, contributed by Sarah Mouser of Verdence Capital Advisors
- A 60-day action plan to start changing the dynamic now
Published: Mar 26, 2026
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